apoyo matek

Thank you. Apoyo matek. Thank you for coming to Uganda, and in particular, to Lira. Thank you for visiting. Thank you for breakfast. Thank you for lunch. Thank you for dinner. Thank you for water. I thank our God that we have been able to meet. Apoyo matek. Thank you for joining our celebration. Thank you for inviting us. Thank you for welcoming us. Thank you.

Those are the words that fill my ears and exit my mouth all day long. I am now in Uganda which, like much of Africa, is a thanking culture. Little can be assumed about any event--the starting time, how long it will last, what will occur, or what will be expected of me--except that I will say 'Thank you' and be told 'Thank you.' Sometimes it gets old and I begin to think that it would be great to hop skip and jump over the many thank you's, effectively thinking, "Let's move on and not spend more time on this." And then I remember what it is like in America where we say "Hey" and "What's up?" with more frequency than "Thank you" and suddenly my patience increases. Apoyo matek.